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# On Coming Out as Plural ## On Coming Out as Plural
Intro Edit: I wrote this originally as a reply, but the more I wrote, the more I Intro Edit: I wrote this originally as a reply, but the more I wrote, the more I
felt there may be many people wondering the same thing, who may need to hear a felt there may be many people wondering the same thing, who may need to hear a
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Now then, here are some things to do when actually coming out: Now then, here are some things to do when actually coming out:
## Approach One: Warming them Up ### Approach One: Warming them Up
This is maybe more an assessment of their open mindedness, and its basically This is maybe more an assessment of their open mindedness, and its basically
the slow and safer approach. This is the approach you want to use for close the slow and safer approach. This is the approach you want to use for close
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any point before you come out you get the sense that they would not be any point before you come out you get the sense that they would not be
receptive, this allows you the option to retreat before coming out. receptive, this allows you the option to retreat before coming out.
## Approach Two: The Upfront ### Approach Two: The Upfront
This approach is, if you'd pardon the language, the very much 'balls to the This approach is, if you'd pardon the language, the very much 'balls to the
walls' sort of approach, unless you have preceded it with the former. This is walls' sort of approach, unless you have preceded it with the former. This is
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Informally being just state it blatantly, off hand, in text, and let the Informally being just state it blatantly, off hand, in text, and let the
questions come later or after. There is of course, no retreat to this. questions come later or after. There is of course, no retreat to this.
## Approach Three: Passively Out ### Approach Three: Passively Out
In a word? Be openly plural. This is again, something I feel like we've In a word? Be openly plural. This is again, something I feel like we've
exclusively done with strangers online. Talk about your system life and tulpas exclusively done with strangers online. Talk about your system life and tulpas
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But above all. Above EVERYTHING included here, in all the assessments of But above all. Above EVERYTHING included here, in all the assessments of
receptiveness, above any way you choose to approach the situation. receptiveness, above any way you choose to approach the situation.
## BE INFORMATIVE. ### BE INFORMATIVE.
Know EXACTLY what you are talking about, and how to explain your experience. It Know EXACTLY what you are talking about, and how to explain your experience. It
helps to know about DID so you can explain exactly why you are different from helps to know about DID so you can explain exactly why you are different from